~carly
Saturday, February 16, 2008
Ladies Night...
~carly
Saturday, February 09, 2008
This is how we roll
Evidently the peas were just what she needed. For weeks she's been rolling onto her side, only to be stuck in place by her lower arm. By Wednesday, she had mastered the technique of rolling from her back to her stomach. We couldn't be more proud...it's the little things.
One more first for the week. It was the first time Car was able to get enough of Mary Reese's hair together to hold a bow. I think this is more of a milestone for mom than for our little girl.
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Spring Fever
This may be a bold and somewhat arrogant statement. Who am I to tell the rest of the world they're wrong??? But I think I'll do it anyway...
I believe that the holiday calendar is out of synch with Mother Nature’s seasonal calendar for one holiday – Christmas. The weeks of cold weather, combined with the tease of spring we got last weekend have led me to this conclusion. Christmas and spring are just too far apart.
Now don’t get me wrong, I love cold weather, and I really love the snow. I love to ski. I love to watch Sadie get excited and run around in huge circles kicking up snow in every direction. But after a while, you get tired of having to put on several layers of clothes just to walk outside. If you live in an old house like we do, you get tired of the wind blowing right through it. If you have gas heat, you get tired of having astronomical bills each month even though your house never seems to get any warmer.
Ideally, everyone wants a white Christmas. It's both a song and a movie for a reason. But once Christmas is over, there's really nothing to look forward to, except spring. Imagine a world where Christmas is the grand finale of winter. The anticipation builds throughout the cold days and nights, leading up to the climactic celebration with family and friends. You no longer open the last present or attend the last party thinking I can’t believe it’s over. Knowing that spring, with all its energy and color is just around the corner, carries you through the last few days of winter.
Examples of holidays that work:
I believe that the holiday calendar is out of synch with Mother Nature’s seasonal calendar for one holiday – Christmas. The weeks of cold weather, combined with the tease of spring we got last weekend have led me to this conclusion. Christmas and spring are just too far apart.
Now don’t get me wrong, I love cold weather, and I really love the snow. I love to ski. I love to watch Sadie get excited and run around in huge circles kicking up snow in every direction. But after a while, you get tired of having to put on several layers of clothes just to walk outside. If you live in an old house like we do, you get tired of the wind blowing right through it. If you have gas heat, you get tired of having astronomical bills each month even though your house never seems to get any warmer.
Ideally, everyone wants a white Christmas. It's both a song and a movie for a reason. But once Christmas is over, there's really nothing to look forward to, except spring. Imagine a world where Christmas is the grand finale of winter. The anticipation builds throughout the cold days and nights, leading up to the climactic celebration with family and friends. You no longer open the last present or attend the last party thinking I can’t believe it’s over. Knowing that spring, with all its energy and color is just around the corner, carries you through the last few days of winter.
Examples of holidays that work:
- Memorial Day – spring is in full effect and summer is coming soon.
- Fourth of July – summertime, the beach, grilling, fireworks
- Labor Day – last chance for a “summer” vacation
- Thanksgiving – food, family, football, and fall
We actually had our first taste of warm weather last weekend. Looking back, it really wasn’t that warm. But for some reason, Car and I got a little carried away and decided to welcome the weather with some of our spring attire. After dressing Mary Reese in a pink, short-sleeved dress, we had no choice but to follow her lead. I was sporting shorts and flip-flops before I came to my senses and realized that 60 degrees isn’t that warm when the wind chill is 10-15 degrees cooler. Nevertheless, we wanted to share some of our “spring” pictures with all of you.
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Wednesday, February 06, 2008
A week with Gran C and Big Daddy
Mary Reese was quite busy last week. Not only did she celebrate her four month birthday, but she also got to spend the week with her grandparents. Big Daddy had a conference here for work and Gran C came along for the ride to hang out with the grand girls.
On Saturday, we enjoyed some of Bill's burgers while Mary Reese experienced her first bite of cereal. Car came prepared with a silver spoon and the very same bowl that was used for her first meal. Unfortunately, Mary Reese was not that impressed by the effort. After a few bites --- well, sips of mush, she decided cereal was not her thing. We didn't quite have our proportions down yet, and let's just say it was runny. We're still working on the mix, and she's still trying to decide if she likes it.
Gran C and Big Daddy went to church with us the next day and Mary Reese had yet another first, attending the church nursery. We dropped her off in a pretty, white dress and picked her up in a green burrito. I thought I could swaddle...
After the service, MR had to endure another round of cereal and a 30 minute photo shoot. We just couldn't resist snapping a few pictures before changing her. She was patient at first, but soon realized she could use that pretty dress to hide form the camera (as you can see below).
A few days later, she went to the doctor for her four month shots. Car's efforts to continue breast feeding while student teaching were validated...Mary Reese weighed in at a healthy 15 pounds and 12 ounces. She is now 25 1/2" long and is in the 90th percentile for her height, weight, and head size.
By mid week, we were all looking forward to a relaxing weekend of family and food. Unfortunately, it was not to be. On Thursday night, I became the first one to fall victim to a horrible stomach flu. That's right, Mr. Mom found his kryptonite. Within hours, Carly joined me in misery. After a long night, we confirmed that Julie, Max, and Bill also shared in our pain. Gran C was the only adult left standing. The girls dodged the worst of it, simply sleeping the day away with their parents.
Gran C was gracious enough to make a grocery run for her ailing kin, studiously driving up in her green, cable-knit sweater. Her look was deceiving. When Car opened the door, she was greeted with Soulja Boy Crank That kickin' on the cd player. For those of you that may not know, the Bulldawgs made Crank That a household standard this past football season. Especially at the Blackout. By far one of the funnest games I've ever been to. I still get chills watching the video.
Our readers in Georgia might have been safe given the distance between our sick house and their own homes, but this bug had legs. Gran C became victim number six shortly after arriving home. In case you weren't counting, that's six for six... Any weight we might have gained from the meals Gran C put together all week was easly lost in half the time.
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On Saturday, we enjoyed some of Bill's burgers while Mary Reese experienced her first bite of cereal. Car came prepared with a silver spoon and the very same bowl that was used for her first meal. Unfortunately, Mary Reese was not that impressed by the effort. After a few bites --- well, sips of mush, she decided cereal was not her thing. We didn't quite have our proportions down yet, and let's just say it was runny. We're still working on the mix, and she's still trying to decide if she likes it.
Gran C and Big Daddy went to church with us the next day and Mary Reese had yet another first, attending the church nursery. We dropped her off in a pretty, white dress and picked her up in a green burrito. I thought I could swaddle...
After the service, MR had to endure another round of cereal and a 30 minute photo shoot. We just couldn't resist snapping a few pictures before changing her. She was patient at first, but soon realized she could use that pretty dress to hide form the camera (as you can see below).
A few days later, she went to the doctor for her four month shots. Car's efforts to continue breast feeding while student teaching were validated...Mary Reese weighed in at a healthy 15 pounds and 12 ounces. She is now 25 1/2" long and is in the 90th percentile for her height, weight, and head size.
By mid week, we were all looking forward to a relaxing weekend of family and food. Unfortunately, it was not to be. On Thursday night, I became the first one to fall victim to a horrible stomach flu. That's right, Mr. Mom found his kryptonite. Within hours, Carly joined me in misery. After a long night, we confirmed that Julie, Max, and Bill also shared in our pain. Gran C was the only adult left standing. The girls dodged the worst of it, simply sleeping the day away with their parents.
Gran C was gracious enough to make a grocery run for her ailing kin, studiously driving up in her green, cable-knit sweater. Her look was deceiving. When Car opened the door, she was greeted with Soulja Boy Crank That kickin' on the cd player. For those of you that may not know, the Bulldawgs made Crank That a household standard this past football season. Especially at the Blackout. By far one of the funnest games I've ever been to. I still get chills watching the video.
Our readers in Georgia might have been safe given the distance between our sick house and their own homes, but this bug had legs. Gran C became victim number six shortly after arriving home. In case you weren't counting, that's six for six... Any weight we might have gained from the meals Gran C put together all week was easly lost in half the time.
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Thursday, January 17, 2008
Mary Reese's first snow
We got our first good snow of the season earlier today. It started piling up around 8:00 this morning. Looking for any possible excuse to stay home with Mary Reese, I decided to work from home. Not to be outdone, Car was able to make it home early after they closed the schools for the day. Mary Reese enjoyed having her parents home on a school day and got to spend a little time outside in her snow gear.
More pictures from the snow day on our pictures page.
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More pictures from the snow day on our pictures page.
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Monday, January 14, 2008
Mr. Mom back in action
Mr. Mom was back in action this weekend with both girls out of commission. Car was hit by a 48 hour bug Friday night, just in time for the weekend...which she spent in bed. Mary Reese wasn't feeling well either and had a decent fever. Lucky for them, a trained professional was on the job to make them as comfortable as possible.
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Tuesday, January 08, 2008
From G-care to Daycare
taking her to an unfamiliar place to leave her with complete strangers.
"You're going to come get me at the end of the day, right???"
Sunday, December 16, 2007
Waiting on Santa
Car and I heard that Santa was going to be in Richmond last weekend, so we packed up MR and hit the road. Of course, the man from the North Pole wasn't the only reason we made the trip. We were also craving some of the finest food from the Far East -- P.F. Chang's. After our standard meal of Lettuce Wraps, Mongolian Beef, and Pork Fried Rice, we were on a mission to find Santa.The first challenge was finding a parking spot. After circling for 10 minutes, it was clear I was going to have to make the sacrifice. I dropped Car and MR off at the mall entrance and told them I'd catch up. I found a spot on the other side of the mall and hustled to find my girls.
We finally found Santa around 3:45pm. Unfortunately, he was minutes away from his afternoon break. One of his elves assured us that he would be back in action by 4:15. Just after 4:00, we heard a rumor that he would be gone until at least 4:45. Car confirmed this with the elves. We were in a fix. As most of you know, timing is everything with a baby. Especially a breast-fed baby.
We had a decision to make. Mary Reese was due to eat at 4:30. This meant that Car had to either whip it out in the Food Court or go to the car to pump. She chose the latter. Now remember that I dropped her off and she didn't know where I ended up parking. It's common knowledge that my dear wife is directionally challenged. However, her mission was clear and there was no way we were abandoning our position at the front of the line. She had 30 minutes to find the car, do the deed, and get back in time to introduce MR to Santa.
With some excellent directions from me, Car found the Honda in 5 minutes flat. While she was doing her thing, MR and I watched the line grow longer by the minute. I knew we had made the right decision when I saw the line was over 150 feet long. The holiday spirit was clearly in the air as kids became rambunctious and parents began to lose their patience. Mary Reese, who was starving at this point, was a ticking time bomb. I knew she could unleash her fury at any minute. Fortunately for her and everyone else in the Food Court, Car showed up just in time. We still had 10 minutes to spare.
All in all, MR's first encounter with Santa was a success! He was quite patient while we did our best to direct MR's attention to the camera. Despite the "deer in the headlights" expression, she was comfortable in his lap, and perhaps even a little fond of the man in red.
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The infamous stretch jeans
Mary Reese's first babysitters
It was just a matter of time before the real world appeared and made us climb down from our cloud. Car had to return to the classroom as part of her masters program and complete 70 hours (2 full school weeks) of observation. While exploring childcare options, we learned a few things that they should tell all new parents -- to summarize, finding good childcare is hard. We always thought it was tough to find a nice place to board Sadie, but that's nothing compared to this. Did you know that most places require contracts these days? Evidently day care and cell phone providers have something in common. None of them are even close to perfect and they resort to legal instruments and financial penalties to keep you from going to their competitor every time you're dissatisfied with their service.
Lucky for us, our family stepped in to help us out. Mom and Wiby flew up the Sunday after Thanksgiving to look after MR the first week. Unfortunately, Wiby was sick as a dog all week and wound up spending more time in our guest bedroom than he would care to remember. The next week, MR was off to "Building Blocks" under the watchful eye of Aunt Julie. In typical Harrell fashion, Car coined the nickname "Building Blocks" for Julie's babysitting service. Julie had her hands full with the cousins, but I think everyone enjoyed the week together.
Thanks to our family, Car was able to enjoy her time back in the classroom. Now we just have to figure out the plan for spring semester. Car will be doing her student teaching for 12 weeks in a first grade classroom. Any volunteers?
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Lucky for us, our family stepped in to help us out. Mom and Wiby flew up the Sunday after Thanksgiving to look after MR the first week. Unfortunately, Wiby was sick as a dog all week and wound up spending more time in our guest bedroom than he would care to remember. The next week, MR was off to "Building Blocks" under the watchful eye of Aunt Julie. In typical Harrell fashion, Car coined the nickname "Building Blocks" for Julie's babysitting service. Julie had her hands full with the cousins, but I think everyone enjoyed the week together.
Thanks to our family, Car was able to enjoy her time back in the classroom. Now we just have to figure out the plan for spring semester. Car will be doing her student teaching for 12 weeks in a first grade classroom. Any volunteers?
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Thanksgiving by the numbers
We had a good trip home for Thanksgiving. Mary Reese made it down to Eastman and Waycross for the first time and had a chance to meet a lot of you. Looking back on the pictures, it's obvious that we need to take more pictures during gatherings, especially family shots. Below is a summary of our Thanksgiving by the numbers, along with a few pictures.
1467.....Miles driven
132.......Hours away from home
33.........Nearest I-85 exit in Charlotte when we passed Lauren and her family headed to D.C.
28.........Hours in the car
27.........Family members Mary Reese met (almost one per hour driven)
6...........Days on the road
4...........States traveled

1467.....Miles driven
132.......Hours away from home
33.........Nearest I-85 exit in Charlotte when we passed Lauren and her family headed to D.C.
28.........Hours in the car
27.........Family members Mary Reese met (almost one per hour driven)
6...........Days on the road
4...........States traveled
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